本帖最后由 Pyree 于 2013-4-25 21:09 编辑
fk_my_life 发表于 2013-4-25 20:37
不是。。。。你小说看多了吧,,,,我就是需要学费而已,不想让家里出钱
Oh, that's understandable. You want to do this out of consideration for your parents. But did you try to think from your parent's point of view? I am sure it is hard for them to make money, but they are doing this for you willingly. They want you to get a good education and a bright future; that is their priority. If you work too much and your study is affected, then you are not doing your parents a flavour. So focus on studying don't let your parents down.
Do as much as you can to support yourself financially to lessen your parent's financial burden. Any left overs, your folks pay for it and you just have to remember to repay them double in the future. And I don't mean in money, I mean actually show a lot of care and respect, the real type of 孝順, after you graduate and have a career.
You are studying and you are 22. You are not a 大男人, you are still a kid. You need time to develop and mature. There is no such a thing as 担子 for a young man who is still seeking knowledge. |